Tuesday, October 8, 2013

2011 - Rayelan Demonstrates Callous Unconcern


 Amanda was right.  Rayelan is a liar and shows calloused unconcern for people once she no longer needs them.  I wish I had sat down and talked to Amanda and her family, or just talked to them over the phone, before coming to Ohio.  

Rayelan did everything she could to ensure I had no contact with Amanda or her family.  They had moved next door before I arrived, with the exception of the youngest girl, who worked odd hours.  Looking back on it, I realize they were angry at me, and with good reason, though I did not know what had actually happened.  And without even thinking about the disservice I was doing to these people I did not ask for proof, accepting Rayelan at her word.  That was a mistake in judgment on my part.

The stories Raye Smith, Rayelan Allan, or Darlene Smith, she uses all of these names for different purposes from what I have been able to find on the Internet, bear no relationship with reality.  

Some of these were obvious to me immediately.  Clearly, Rayelan is always well to do what she likes doing and has to have copious assistance and retire to her bed when confronted with something she does not want to do.  Having raised five children I recognized what was going on there.  

And it did not take long after I had performed the labors of Hercules in the Aegean Stables which is Rayelan's house, to realize as fast as it is cleared out she refills it with more items she then characterizes as 'family heirlooms.'  Rayelan seems to spend most of her time shopping, which accords with Amanda's observation she is a shop-a-holic.  

If you are donating money to Rayelan via Rumor Mill News you should know that she spends practically no time working on it.  Most of her time is spent watching television, shopping, and beading.  

Read these emails.  Amanda and her family drove to Watsonville, packed up Rayelan's possessions, and moved her to Ohio.  They were not paid.  These were labors they believed were being performed for a member of their family.  They loved her, and expressed that love.  Certificate

At the time, Rayelan was losing her home and had no place to go.  While she did not tell me that, precisely, when we talked over the phone during the months leading up to the move, she was clearly casting about for alternatives, none of which panned out.  



EMAILS BELOW:


----- Forwarded Message -----From: Amanda lee <xblasphx@xxxxx.com>To: Raye Smith <raelon@xxx.net> Sent: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 12:07 PMSubject:


I love how you say we are the heartless, and we are the uncaring and ungreatful.


I just want you to know that my child has no clean clothes because we have no money to wash them.
That she cries out the window every time she sees you and the dogs, and doesn't understand why she cant go see them, or why you dont talk to her.


So, thank you. So very fucking much. For everything we DIDN'T ask for, that pushed you to the point where me and my child are even more fucked than I was before I knew you.




From: Amanda lee <xblasphx@xxxxxxx.com>
Date: December 25, 2011 8:49:01 PM EST
To: Raye Smith <raelon@xxxxx.net>

And if Melinda wants to know where all your money really goes, just keep her living with you for awhile. You're a shop-a-holic, and the reason you probably feel so sick and look so terrible, is because to save face and hold to this lie you havent been out blowing as much money as you normally do. 

How many times did we try to STOP you from wasting your money, because we wanted to HELP you stay out of this situation? 

And how many times did you tell us "oh we have no money" and the next day come home with 40 bags of stuff for everyone that NO ONE asked for, and say you got 1k dollars from a reader. 

How many times did you LIE to the people on RMN that buck was sick, so that you could get cash for YOUR shopping addiction. 

I dare you to let Melinda read this. She thinks she knows you? I scoff at that idea. 



Amanda <xblasphx@xxxxxxxx.com>
12/26/11



to me







You're an idiot.

That is all. When she tries to pull this all on you because she spent money on beds for you that you never asked for. And tries to say you never did anything for her and never cared. You will see.

She is a compulsive liar, a shop-a-holic, and a back stabbing bitch, obviously.





From: Amanda lee <xblasphx@xxxxxl.com>
Date: December 25, 2011 8:39:36 PM EST
To: Raye Smith <raelon@xxxxxxx.net> (email no longer in use)

I guess you have forgotten that we stopped our lives, dropped everything and came out to california to help you move because YOU wanted to move. 

That we saved you thousands of dollars by doing so. 
That when you had no where to move to, my GRANDMOTHER found a realitor and made ALL of the calls to help you get a house. 
That we moved all of your stuff AGAIN so that you didnt have to pay movers to do it. 
That YOU ASKED US to move in with you, because YOU didnt want to be alone. 
That my grandmother would get out of bed while she was far more ill than you were, and scrub the fucking floors, and clean up your dogs piss and shit, because you just let them go anywhere they please
That my grandmother stayed up till 6 am 2 weeks in a row to do YOUR taxes while she could barely move because you never gave her the papers until it was too late.
That there were two months that we had to eat nothing but ramen and canned soup because you spend all of your money on book shelves and potted plants and we NEVER fucking said a word because it was YOUR money, and we were living there rent free.. and we ARE NOT FUCKING MOOCHERS WHO EXPECT ANYTHING AT ALL FROM YOU AND ARE GREATFUL FOR WHAT WE HAD AND TRIED TO DO ANYTHING YOU ASKED OF US. 

We never used you. Anytime we have had the opportunity to give back... we have. 


The reason that stopped was because you NEVER appreciated what we did do, we would do one thing and get no thank you just a list of other things, as if we were just hired help and slaves, instead of the FAMILY we took you in as a part of. And because you moved us out of the house so that someone else could move in, and every time we were there we felt unwelcome. So yes, we STOPPED helping you, and STOPPED being there for you. 




I dont even care that you want to stop paying for everything you pay for, that's your right and I do not blame you. 
But do not put me and my family down on a fucking holiday, when we have never been anything but helpful and kind to you. 



You know damn well this is true, and if you continue to let those people in your home convince you otherwise.. you are more than just a sick woman, you are also a very sad woman. 



I had a card to give you from Jade, but since we ever only take from you, I ripped it up.





You are also obviously a liar, also because if you went over her finances you would know about her over spending and compulsions.

She can not pin her debt, or anything else on anyone but herself. She was in debt before we came along, and we showed up to help her get out of it.

You will kick yourself see day, for believing her like we did. For trusting her as a kind woman with good intention. And for helping her attempt to ruin a family.

I specifically have never ASKED Raye for a single penny that I did not work for. She offered to buy me clothes every time we went out and I said no, even though she insisted. My grandmother would call and beg family for cigarette money and things while we lived there, because she refused to ask Raye for a penny.

We lived in that house rent free, and Raye gave us gifts we didn't ask for. We cleaned the house, took her to the hospital, anything she ever asked. When we decided to move  we were doing so on our own, and finding an income, but Raye didn't let us ... She signed the lease here with out along us  and told us she would pay for a year. With lease already signed with out us being talked to, what should we have done? Left and still made her pay it? Or take it.

If court is involved then so be it. But the proof of craigslist emails from us all looking for work for nearly a year to get away from the woman you think so saintly, will prove enough. also will all of her tax papers who know one knows better than the woman who spent two weeks studying them.

The woman you have claim to know so well is the true freud. And you say you haven't seen a shopping addiction? She bought all new takes though she has four, a new vacuum though she has three, laptops for her and all of you... all since you have lived there.

pay attention every time you tell her a story, the SAME thing has happened to her, every time. She is a liar, and her stories always change.

We never used Raye. We did care. We suffered for her, but she will never admit it or realize it obviously.

and you, you area very pathetic excuse for a human being, and you do not scare me. So remove your false sense of power. You have nothing that us grounded in any fact.

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